Secret bout girls~

I learned this almost 2 years plus ago when I first got to know more my ex personally cause we only met for the 2nd time that time but I was madly in love with her. So I wanted to learn a bit more of girls so that I'd be able to handle her regardless the situation.

So hope you guys enjoy reading it and guys would be able to learn some info about them, the ladies.

When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind
When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of
questions,
She is wondering how long you will be
around
When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a
few seconds,
She is not at all fine
When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying
When a GIRL lays on your chest,
She is wishing for you to be hers forever
When a GIRL calls you everyday,
She is seeking for your attention
When a GIRL sms's u everyday,
She wants you to reply at least once
When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it
When a GIRL says that she can't live
without you,
She has made up her mind that you are
her future
When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more
than that.

- Unknown

 Well girls are generally soft creatures compared to guys. Though times are changing and there are a lot of strong females living right now, they still need the special care. They eager for such tender touch of feelings, words, and affection.

  

But regardless guy or girl, everyone loves to see the pretty elegant ladies strutting around. But we do have ego clashes a lot these days. These things make our world a living hell as people break each others hearts due to a lot reasons. Since previously I've posted about 20 things guys should never do to girls before, I hope this post would help make life easier for both the guys and girls.

Cheers all!!

Second Chances: I Will Never Take You For Granted Again

The following story was written for entertainment purposes only. It is a fictional work derived from the mind of the writer and in no way should be taken as a factual account of any past or planned event. Anyone mentioned in this story is done so in a fictional fashion. Any names used are purely coincidental and does not mean that the characters have any life outside the writer’s imagination.

I strongly advise you to only read what you are personally comfortable with. I will not feel personally responsible for any discomfort you feel after reading my post since I have given you ample warning to its content. Once again the following post is meant to be read by mature audiences capable of making consensual decisions. If this is not you please stop reading immediately.
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I stood staring out the window waiting as I had done so many evenings before. He was late again but this was really no surprise; he is late frequently. In fact Jay rarely ever arrived home on time. I normally do not allow myself to get angry about it because love helps people accept your lover’s inadequacies, but this night as I watched my ice cream cake melt and the lasagna grow cold I lost myself in anger. I knew my anger would never change anything but it felt good to lose myself in the passionate fury.

As I stood there in my lace lingerie and high heeled shoes I thought about how many times he had been late over the last year but it was always with a good excuse. Minutes turned into an hour as my high heeled shoes impatiently tapped against the hardwood floors.

Finally I heard a car outside and then a knock on the door. I thought he must have forgotten his key and ran to the door to answer it. Two men in full military uniform were standing at my front door. I grab the curtain to hide my body. They introduce themselves to me and I reciprocated. I didn’t hear anything after the older man said, “Dreadfully sorry ma’am…” I stood there still half dressed with the curtain across my half naked body.

Just as the men walked away my cell phone rings and he is on the other end. “I was called into a last minute meeting sweetheart. I will be home soon.” Now the man’s words came to me clearly, “Dreadfully sorry ma’am to inconvenience you. We have the wrong address.” I watched in deep sorrow as the car pulled into my neighbor’s driveway; however I felt like I was given a second chance to show him how much I love him and leave the petty jealousies and anger behind. Isn’t life really so much more valuable to me than cold food? I can always warm it in the microwave but once he is gone that is forever.

I was waiting for him at the door as he arrived. I wrapped myself around him as he carried me through the house removing his uniform as we went. I remained wrapped around him the rest of the night as I held him tighter than ever before. This day was a turning point in our relationship and I will never take him for granted again. I am a very lucky woman to have him in my life and I will never forget that again.

Busy Busy Days....

I understand that I haven't been updating much lately and I supose probably some of the readers just got bored with what I've left so far. This is not a proper update but I am here to tell you guys that I am really sorry for the slow updates as I've been so tired with so much drama going in my life right now.

Things that I can't say out, things that I can't avoid, everything seems to follow me all the way as much as how much I would like them to go away and leave me in peace. Well I supose life can be a bitch at times and I just feel like the bitch stuck to me for quite some time.

Yet still I wouldn't exactly say that I've had a bad time all the way, as I have my own share of good luck and all. Things at these moment are moving slowly, though I would love for it to pass by me at the pace I would like it to. Unfortunately we can't control time, though we get to choose only the path that we decide to walk on.

I've chosen a path which I am still finding it hard to believe till now how I actually managed to come into terms with. I made a huge step in my life which I don't think I would've done a few months back. Things have split into different chapters right now, with some older chapter being eased of my mine while some new ones come banging at the door.

Seriously, at the rate that I am actually going right now, I don't even know what and where would I be in the next 6 months! That's how crazy things have been with me. Work being as usual BUSY BUSY and just plain BUSY. So after work basically am drained out so I don't really do much after work. Coming home is already quite depressing so with all the drama at work, plus with that of at home I think it's worse than following 90210 series. (90210 fans no offense meant here yea.... *wink*)

 I think I am at the peak of my maturing cycle as everything about me is starting change rapidly. The way I think, I act, I feel and etc seems to be so different compared to me of 6 months ago. And hey, 2011 is just freaking 6 months old?! So much changes in a span of just 6 months is freaky. But I would say that this part of my life seems to be going through new phase.

Falling out of favor with different sets of people, work, love, and etc has made me a whole new person. Going through all these isn't a new thing for me as throughout I have experienced this but every single time it's a whole new experience and now with what I have earned through what life has offered me, I think I am ready to take my life into the next level.

Chasing my dreams have always been a passion for me. And right now, I have a few that I would like to achieve and hopefully with everyone's blessing, I would be able to reach them with flying colours!

So I supose I spoke a bit too much emo stuff already. But I have decided that I would wanna let my readers know more about me little by little from here. I would really love to meet everyone of you because I would love to get feedbacks, and also work harder to be better for you all! I have also been wondering if I should take up a writing job that was offered to me recently. What do you all think? Think I can handle that? Please let me know.... =)

And for next post would be about the awesome team outing I had with my colleagues at Sunway Lagoon Theme Park! Still waiting for the pics to be up so I could write about it. So hopefully in the next few days, they will be up. *wink* Cheer people!


Psst : Don't bother those pics. I just love them cz I think they are so adorable!! XD

Random Quiz

Another stolen post from facebook and another friend. I think I had it here for awhile now but I wonder why I never really post it out till now. LOL By the way this is just another random post. Hopefully I could find the time to update in the weekend!




NAME: Thayalan aka TY
AGE: 23
BIRTHDATE: 14th February 1988.
PRESENT ADDRESS: Kelana Jaya, PJ.

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 92 Truths about you. At the end, choose 20 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you.
(To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, copy and paste this note, erase my answers and enter your own, tag people in the right hand corner of the app then click publish.)

WHAT WAS YOUR:
1. last beverage = Teh Ice.
2. last phone call = 50 plus seconds with a funny friend.
3. last text message = about 5 seconds ago.
4. last song you listened to = Teenage dream - Katy Perry.
5. last time you cried = Out of laughter counted?

HAVE YOU EVER:
6. dated someone twice = Yes.
7. been cheated on = Yes.
8. kissed someone & regretted it = Can't remember.
9. lost someone special = Most the time.
10. been depressed = I think anything and everything made me depressed.
11. been drunk and threw up = Don't remember the last time.

LIST THREE FAVORITE COLORS:
12. Purple.
13. Red.
14. Black.

LAST YEAR (2010), HAVE YOU:
15. Made a new friend = All the time.
16. Fallen out of love = Yes.
17. Laughed until you cried = Yes.
18. Met someone who changed you = Met long time but always never stop changing me.
19. Found out who your true friends were = Yes.
20. Found out someone was talking about you = Would they ever stop? =P
21. Kissed anyone on your FB friend's list = Of course I did!

GENERAL: 
22. How many people on your FB friends list do you know in real life = 95%? or was it 90%?
24. Do you have any pets = Used too. I wanna puppy!! XD
25. Do you want to change your name = Dying to!
26. What did you do for your last birthday = Worst birthday ever!
27. What time did you wake up today =  5.01a.m
28. What were you doing at midnight last night = Snoring away.
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for = Naza GTR 150S.
30. Last time you saw your Mother =  I think last monday or was it sunday? LOL
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life = We all have our own regrets, don't we?
32. What are you listening to right now = OAG - Senyuman Ragamu
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom? = I think I did.
34. What's getting on your nerves right now? = A few things and few people.
35. Most visited webpage = Facebook,Twitter, Blog and Nuffnang.
37. Nickname = TY
38. Relationship Status = Single
39. Zodiac sign = Aquarius
40. He or She = He.
42.College = I wish I belong to 1.
43. Intermediate = Digi Hq
44. Hair color = Black I think.
45. Long or short = Kinda short now but gonna make it shorter! =P
46. Height = 5'9 inches
47. Do you have a crush on someone? = *lips sealed*
48. What do you like about yourself? = Eyes colour!
49. Piercings = Need to repierce.. ='(
50. Tattoos = Next month if all goes well
51. Righty or lefty= Strong lefty!

FIRSTS :
52. First surgery = 1 year plus or 2 years old
53. First piercing = 5 years old
54. First best friend =  8
55. First Sport = Badminton (5 years old)
56. First vacation = Can't remember
58. First pair of trainers = 7

RIGHT NOW:
59. Eating =  Stomach not well to eat
60. Drinking = Water.
61. I'm about to = Need SLEEP!!
62. Listening to = YEAH 3X - Chris Brown
63. Waiting for = I dunno... =X

YOUR FUTURE :
64. Want kids? = Of course!
65. Get Married? = I would love to!
66. Career? = I dunno. Businessman? OR Business Strategic Planner. (sounds cool eh?)

WHICH IS BETTER :
67. Lips or eyes = Eyes.
68. Hugs or kisses= HUGS!
69. Shorter or taller = Taller
70. Older or Younger = Older but younger inside? =P
71. Romantic or spontaneous = A lil of both!
72. Nice stomach or nice arms =  Awesome ABS and I am all yours! LOL
73. Sensitive or loud = Rather Loud
74. Hook-up or relationship = errr.... @.@
75. Trouble maker or hesitant=  Troublemaker.

HAVE YOU EVER :
76. Kissed a stranger = Hmm On the cheek counted?
77. Drank hard liquor = <3
78. Lost glasses/contacts = Can't remember
79. Sex on first date = Nope!
80. Broke someone's heart= I think I always did it to that someone... :'(
81. Had your own heart broken = Never failed to
82. Been arrested = Yep but that was mistaken identity
83. Turned someone down = The worst I could do... Yea
84. Cried when someone died= Stoned
85. Fallen for a friend = Did and I still do!

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
86. Yourself = All the time!
87. Miracles = Depends...
88. Love at first sight = Can never run away from that!
89. Heaven = Looking for it...
90. Santa Claus = secret santa! Sexay!!! XD
91. Kiss on the first date = I think so....
92. Angels = Secret!